Nature's Ability to Mentor and Develop Men
- Brad Sherwood

- Oct 3, 2023
- 6 min read
Updated: Oct 20, 2023
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Life's pace nowadays can make any man feel like he's caught in a whirlwind. Between work demands, endless pings from our devices, and the ever-present buzz of social media, the day-to-day can overshadow the core values we hold as husbands, fathers, and leaders.
It's hard not to notice how today's narratives are shifting the goalposts on what it truly means to be a man – pushing convenience over commitment, fleeting joy over purposeful leadership.
But amidst this noise, there's a sanctuary – the great outdoors.
For me, the outdoors isn't just an escape; it's a teacher. It offers timeless teachings on leading with purpose, grit, and heart. Each time I take a hike or even just sit around a campfire, I'm reminded of our genuine masculine roots and the leadership qualities waiting to be refined within us.
The great outdoors is nature's a place for us to heal and grow. Backed by studies, like one from the American Physiological Association, we know that nature provides cognitive benefits, sharpening our focus, memory, and attention.
The Power of Nature in Building Leadership Skills
Nature has this amazing ability to remind us men of our inherent bravery and potential, grounded in manhood. It's a place that silences the world's noise, reconnecting us to the foundational principles of being a man. Every outdoor adventure, whether it's a simple hike, a night under the stars, or mastering a rifle's precision, drives home the importance of aiming high, navigating life's hurdles, and embracing our masculinity.
To me, nature's not just trees and trails - it's a source of wisdom. For any man feeling a tad lost or seeking purpose, diving into the wilderness could be the guiding light you've been missing. Here's a glimpse into how nature can mold leadership traits and reignite that authentic manly spirit:
Nature as a Mentor

Nature's always been there, ever patient, waiting to impart its wisdom. While it doesn't shout its lessons, nature exemplifies vital leadership attributes – unwavering focus, the tenacity to rebound, and sheer grit.
Taking a break in the wild sweeps away life's chaos, developing our innate leadership skills. Whether it's tackling a challenging hike or setting up a campsite, these experiences push us to set ambitious goals and adapt when the going gets tough. It's about pausing, reflecting, and soaking in the wisdom nature offers..
While there's no shortage of ways for us men to grow our leadership skills, there's something unmatched about the lessons learned from the great outdoors. It's a refreshing break from our screen-saturated lives. Out in nature, we're not just bystanders. Instead, we dive right in, engaging directly with our environment, and in the process, refining genuine leadership traits.
Building Grit and Persistence
Out in nature, activities like hunting, fishing, and sharpshooting aren't just hobbies; they're lessons in grit and determination. When waiting silently for a game animal, it's more than the hunt; it's a lesson in patience. Those countless casts with no catch teach us about hanging in there, pushing forward even when results don't show up right away. And aiming just right? It's about focus and perfecting our skills. These aren't just pastimes; they're real-life tests that build our resilience and leadership spirit. While there are many paths to growth, the hands-on challenges nature offers have a lasting impact on us.
The Role of Husbands as Leaders
Being a husband and father, I've always felt the weight of responsibility: to provide, protect, and guide my family. But how did this commitment to leadership develop?
Rooted in Tradition

From the start, I've felt a profound connection to the responsibilities and values that have been passed down to men. To me, these responsibilities reflect a blueprint of genuine masculinity shaped by God.
While the world around us might be shifting rapidly, some truths remain unchanged: the importance of standing on our own two feet and the unwavering commitment to our families. From my experience, the men who spend time in the outdoors, immersing themselves in its traditions, inherently understand their role as leaders and protectors.
As society struggles with redefining manhood, these men remain anchored, setting an example rooted in timeless virtues.
Leading Through Actions
Genuine leadership isn't always about the spotlight moments or captivating words. It's in the quiet, everyday actions: the selfless giving, the consistent dedication, and putting others' needs before one's own.
As a dad, husband, and someone passionate about the outdoors, I've learned the true meaning of collaboration, camaraderie, and putting the team before self. These lessons from nature guide my daily interactions and inspire our kids to lead with authenticity. Outdoorsmen intrinsically understand sacrifice and service and prioritize team building and performance. Their actions point the way for the next generation of fathers, sons, and mentors.
Values that Guide
Our moral compass comes from within, aligned to doing what's right no matter what, even when there's an easy way out. For many of us, faith and time outdoors nurture this inner voice. It's what we turn to when we face difficult decisions. Being grounded in nature and a higher purpose gives us the strength and wisdom to lead our homes with love. It helps us model integrity for others seeking the way.
The Top 3 Outdoor Activities To Build Practical Leadership Skills as a Man
Here are three outdoor activities that don't just challenge your body but also shape your character. They teach patience, decision-making, and responsibility — essential leadership skills every man should build:
1. Rock Climbing
Rock climbing demands quick judgment when the stakes are high. You must assess potential hand and foot placement while battling fear and fatigue. The sport pushes your mental and physical limits. You must stay focused and summon the courage to move ahead to keep climbing. These same skills are essential for leadership. Climbing teaches how to remain calm when facing pressure, make tough calls, accept the consequences, and trust your instincts. The sport distills real-world leadership challenges into an intense, concentrated form.
2. Survival Training

Survival skills train us to adapt when things go unplanned, like finding water and erecting shelter with scarce resources or keeping our nerves when lost in the wilderness. This wilderness training develops our ability to stay alert and take decisive action under stress—invaluable leadership skills for men guiding others through uncertain times. Survival conditions prepare us for the challenges of leading through unpredictability. It teaches vigilance, decisiveness, and grace under pressure.
3. Hiking
For me, hiking is a journey of resilience and determination (and patience if you're doing it with kids). Hiking over rough terrain builds grit and resilience. As your muscles ache and the trail continues, you must dig deep mentally to take each step. Hiking teaches determination to overcome discomfort and keep marching towards your goals. It also promotes awareness and quick thinking as you navigate unexpected obstacles. Most of all, reflecting on long hikes instills wisdom to lead others down the right path.
Challenging the Status Quo
In a modern landscape that often leans towards momentary pleasures over lasting purpose, and individual gain over community benefit, the purpose of true masculinity seems to get muffled. As a husband, father, and outdoor enthusiast, there's a pressing need to challenge this shift and reignite what real strength is about.
For us men, genuine fulfillment doesn't just sprout from quick wins, but from tackling challenges shoulder to shoulder. Genuine manhood means walking the tough road, not because it's popular, but because it's right. Those of us drawn to the outdoors understand this; we're molded by nature's challenges and the beauty of patience. In the face of uncertainty we stand firm, not swayed by passing fads, but anchored in ageless truths and values.
Joining MENxNATURE: Your Next Step
In the isolating modern world, it's easy to feel disconnected when surrounded by people who don't share your values. However, many others seek the same sense of direction and belonging that you do. At MENxNATURE, you'll find fellow dads learning how to be present fathers and steadfast husbands, men supporting each other as leaders in their community.
Our mission is simple - helping men achieve their potential as fathers, husbands, and leaders. We provide the tools, skills, and camaraderie to thrive in these essential roles and chase after good, authentic masculinity.
Let's reconnect to our nature and what truly matters most.
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